"You’re not people dependent, you’re peace, love and joy dependent."---From Patrick Weaver Ministries

There comes a time in your healing that you have to shift. They traumatized you, abused you, and tried to crush your soul. They haven’t repented, apologized and don’t even seem to care. Can I tell you something beloved…you can’t heal forward holding on to what they did. You can’t get mad enough to make them feel bad for what they did. You can’t deny yourself enough joy, peace and happiness to make them repent.

They continue to try to smear your name, lie on you and try to get a reaction out of you. Can I tell you something…they cannot smear your name to anybody who knows you, loves you or cares about the truth. Yes, it hurts to be lied on…yes, it hurts to have lies believed by the people you thought knew you, had your back, and the people you thought were your friends. Let’s put them in perspective so you can heal forward…they aren’t your friends, they were acquaintances. Friends, people who love you and people who care about the truth don’t believe lies and don’t accept the word of a liar. A real friend won’t believe what somebody tells them about you without talking to you. And a ride or die friend won’t let somebody tell them anything about you that doesn’t agree with their testimony about you. You don’t need those people as friends beloved. Thank God for showing you who they are and praise God for removing them. They were covert baggage not a blessing.

You will experience a shift when you entrust history people to God and get selfish about your healing. They don’t have power, they had power. They don’t have control, they had control. You don’t owe them anything…not a conversation, not a thought and not one second of your healing. You’re not healing for them, you’re healing for you. You’re not healing to reconcile with them, you’re healing to reconcile with your destiny. They aren’t the last or the only, they are 1 out of 7 billion other people on the planet.
Get selfish about your healing beloved. It’s not about them, it’s about you. You’re not people dependent, you’re peace, love and joy dependent.

Carry On!